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Dear Jade, I'm 23 years old and I'm having a hard time finding Mr. Right. For some reason, the guys that I've always been interested in are the ones with girlfriends. With that said, I've not had a boyfriend. What should I do? I'm lonely but I don't know where to begin finding a boyfriend. Single in Denver HE SAID: Good or bad, a lot of circumstances in life come unexpectedly. For example, a computer-generated lottery number may have a better shot at picking the winning numbers than the faithful gambler who invests her/her earnings day after day. You are still young and you have plenty of time to find that special someone. As you get older, your attitudes and tastes will change. Who knows, that special someone could be sitting right next to you or could be on the other side of the world. In short, there is no formula to follow when trying to find that special someone. Just relax! Even a blind squirrel will find a nut once in awhile. |
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SHE SAID: You are still very young and trust me, you'll find Mr. Right. For now, I would hit the social scene, especially going to networking events. You want to be out there where you'll meet as many people as possible. Be open to Mr. Maybe. As for you being attracted to guys who are not available, you need to stop that. See a therapist, if you can't. Getting involved with a guy who is taken, will only deepen your insecurity and you'll definitely be broken-hearted. So, get out there and mingle! BUT MAMA SAID: While it is difficult to be single when it seems like everyone around you is coupled off. However, the more you dwell on it, the worse it's going to be. If you are so desperate to find a boyfriend, you are either going to scare off the good ones with your desperation or end up settling for one that really does not deserve you. You should let your friends and family know that you are open to being set up but do not get so caught up in finding a boyfriend. Go out and enjoy yourself. Fill your time with hobbies and activities. Chances are you'll find someone in no time. |
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