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Dear Jade, I just broke up with my boyfriend of seven years. Long story, but I finally had to call it quits. It's only been a month but I'm feeling the pressure to get back into dating again, especially if I want to get married and have kids as planned. Any tips? Emma HE SAID: First of all, nothing scares guys away faster than a woman with a "plan." Sure, most guys want to get married at some point but they don't want to feel pressured into doing it and that's what happens when a woman has to get married and have kids by a certain age. Take it easy and just start doing things for fun, without the goal of marriage. It'll make it a much nicer experience for you and the guy you set your sights on. Which leads to your question. if you see a guy at the gym or the coffee shop, why not make the first move? Guys get tired of doing all the work all the time. |
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SHE SAID: Don't succumb to the pressure! You need to take some time off and just gather your thougthts and emotions. You were in a long-term relationship with someone you thought you'd spend the rest of your life with and now it's over. That is a lot to process and you can't really do that in a month to the point where you can start clean in a new relationship. If you feel that the pressure is too great, try giving yourself a timeframe. That way you can tell yourself (or your friends and family that you'll get back on the market in X months. BUT MAMA SAID: I am sorry to hear of your break-up. If you feel ready to start dating again, let your friends and family know. They may know some men you might find attractive. However, you should take things slowly. Enjoy yourself. Go on dates but do not rush into a relationship just to get married. |
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