He Said, She Said, but Mama Said

Dear Jade,

I'm a married woman but I'm been attracted to this guy that I kept running into. I don't know him, but I noticed that he's checking me out. I haven't done anything except fantasize. Is it that bad being in lust for a man other than my husband?
Briana

HE SAID:

No, No, No!ÊUnless you are ready for a divorce, change your routines.ÊIf you could commit adultery, so can your husband!ÊYep, that changes everything doesn‰Ûªt it?ÊI suppose it is human nature to seek the best of things but you know as well as any one else, it ain‰Ûªt that simple.ÊAs with anything in this world, there is a price to be paid for Vanity.ÊBriana, are you ready to pay the price?

SHE SAID:

Fantasies are what keeps things interesting. It's normal and healthy to have them. Now if you decide to go and try to make them reality, now there's where you're going to run into problems.

BUT MAMA SAID:

As long as you do not act on your feelings of lust and curiosity, there is no harm in having a random thought here and there about another man.

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